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I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s ever wondered about this.  Think about it! When you first get into a ‘live in’ relationship with your beau, and bed time comes about, have you ever found yourself in your closet, wondering what to put on?  What would he like? (Ladies, it’s OK to want to want to please your man if he’s being good! )

With all the Victoria Secret and Frederick’s lingerie out there, we, as women, have a lot to choose from when it comes to undergarments and night wear!  We have that freedom to have fun with dressing up our bodies, even to sleep!

But is that really what our men want? Well, with this in thought, I took a survey! 

I asked 20 random men (different backgrounds, different income classes, ages 20-40, single and in a relationship) what they would WANT their ladies to wear in bed EVERYDAY if it were up to them!

I also asked 20 women (same criteria as the men) what they THINK their man would want them to wear EVERYDAY to bed if it were up to them!  The results were interesting!

I will admit that the assumption from more than a half of the women was wrong.  They thought their men would want them in lingerie! You know; the thigh highs, corset, the whole nine!  This assumption, of course, is understandable, because think about it, wouldn’t a man want a super model lookalike jumping in bed with him every night?

The rest of the women said, “Nothing! He would want me in bed in my birthday suit every night!” Easy enough.

Now, to the men! 

I spoke to one particular man, single, early 30s, whose income is in the millions a year,  and this is what he had to say. 

“It doesn’t matter to me, since it’s going to come off anyway. If she wants to wear sweatpants to sleep, that’s up to her, as long as she knows it isn’t staying on for too long!”

When asked about the full out lingerie outfits, he said,

“That’s okay from time to time.  I once had a friend who, every night, went into the bathroom closet and did this whole thing, like it was a whole production, and came out with lingerie from head to toe!  Every night, Josi! After a while, I thought, ‘ugh, she is wack!’”

We discussed that she may have felt that because of his status, she had to try extra hard to impress him.

He added;

 “Don’t get me wrong, the lingerie is cool, but not every night! It defeats the purpose.  A woman has to know when to turn it up and change it up. Like when we are role playing.  But then again, role playing isn’t for everybody.  I just want a girl to be herself and not try too hard with what she’s putting on at night.  Just come comfortable!”

WOW! Surprisingly, most men also felt the same way! 

#1 ANSWER: “Boy shorts and tank top, no bra!”

#2 ANSWER: “Nothing at all!”

One man said, “a see through night dress is perfect!”

The men said they love the lingerie, but not every night.  They want you nice and comfortable!

So, there you have it! 

Why don’t you ask your man what he prefers you wear to bed every night!  You might learn something new!

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